To the editor of The Sun
Snoozing in my Chair
Remembering That First Kiss
Lost to the Clouds
"I'm Old," he said
My Visit with the Director of Lawrence Radiation Lab
Plodding Down the Path
Read To Me
Tax Time
On Being Fully Alive
If I Should Die Before I Wake
Theme Song Nostalgia
Fight or Flight or
Minor Island
Landings II and III
The Sun on Me in the Morning
Missing Pieces
Living Simply
I Had a Brother, Once
The Wild One
The Cost of Health Care
Popular Music
Sleeping Beauty
Full Moon
Are We Connected
Concert for George
Zoe Moon
An Opportunity to Feel
Over the River and Through the Woods
Saving Daylight
Garage Sale
Pushing On
My Little Town
The West Wing
Everything is Impermanent
Emotional Habits
My Shadow
The Power of Eyes
Being a Vegetarian
She Blushed
The Mouse in the Basement
Mind and Matter
Do You Love God
Writer's Lament
Releasing Dreams
Relating to Cats and
Free as a bird
Silk Scarf
Alice at 21
Alice Evelyn King Skiff
Cookies & Milk
Animals in Mountains

Theme Song Nostalgia

I was half-listening to some classical music on radio last night while browsing through a magazine, when I began to feel strange. I was transported back to my old living room in the first house I ever owned, listening to stereo through two different radios, one broadcasting the left stereo channel and the other the right. It was an odd sensation.

Those were the days when I listenedóreally listenedóto music. I had memorized the few LPs that I owned. I built my own Hi-Fi system, including the huge speaker enclosure that dominated the room. The local public radio station was experimenting with a new technology called stereophonic sound, that promised to out-Hi-Fi the best (until then) music reproduction available. There were a few very high-priced stereo amplifiers on the market, but they were out of my reach. Even though I was using a little table-model radio to pick up the right channel, I could hear clearly the great depth of the music. It was like being in the auditorium while the orchestra played. I was enchanted.

The theme music for the program was "Venus" from Gustolf Holstís suite The Planets. Beginning very softly with long, sweet notes, the music fit the mood of the evening. And last night, a million miles and fifty years away from that little living room, I closed my eyes and melted.

Music has a way of connecting me to my past, the same way odors do. Not long ago I was in a room with a lot of people, and suddenly smelled an old girlfriend of mine, one whom I havenít thought of in many years. Someone in the room was wearing her perfume. I avoided looking around the room. I didnít want to see her. But I remembered. And I canít hear certain pieces of music without feeling movedóliterallyóinto my past.

A few years later than that first taste of stereo music, I was driving through the campus of Iowa State University, near sundown. The trees and the green grass blazed with the golden glow from the sun, and the university radio station, WOL, was signing off with its theme music, Howard Hansonís Romantic Symphony. More long, sweet chords, music I couldnít remember ever hearing before. The whole scene was etched in my mind, and whenever I hear that music now I not only remember, I re-live that time. It was a life-changing experience, going to school again after twenty years of building a career and a family and what I had thought was my life.

Two years later, having finished my masterís program and moved to San Francisco in hopes of starting a new career, I was exploring that spectacular city one Sunday morning and listening to the local classical music station KKHI on my car radio. Just as I turned off Marina Boulevard and encountered the Palace of Fine Arts, set like a jewel in a little park and reflected in a poolóa Taj Mahal in the bright morning sunshineóthe radio began playing Ralph Von Williamsís Variations on a Theme by Thomas Tallis. It was so perfect an accompaniment to the visual symphony I was taking in, I decided on the spot that someday I would film that place and use that music as a sound track.

Maybe that was a time when I was more susceptible to romantic music, or more susceptible to romance in general. But I seemed to hear more music that Iíd never heard before, music that grabbed me and never let me go. One of the many music programs on KKHI used Griegís Holberg Suite as its theme music, and I listened to it nearly every day for two years. The Grieg isnít the kind of music I usually pick out of my library when I want to listen to something, but when I hear it, itís another old friend, and Iím carried back to my Volkswagen bus, driving in the California sunshine through golden hills accented with green swaths of brush and trees that trace the valleys down to the Bay.

A few years after Iíd returned to "normalcy" back in the Midwest, I got interested in classical guitar and, perhaps sensitized by my new passion, heard more and more of it on the radio. Another evening classical program on the University of Cincinnatiís station WGUC used "Memories of Alhambra" by Francisco Tarrega as their theme music. I was toying with the idea of learning to play the guitar myself, and I thought that if I could ever play just that one piece, Iíd be satisfied. When I first heard it, I couldnít imagine how it could be doneóit sounds more like two guitars, yet I knew it was composed for a soloist. It is played mostly with two fingers, rapidly alternating to produce a soft and sweet melody, with a low accompaniment played with the thumb. It was another of those theme songs marking a period in my life when I felt most alive, and when I hear it today, I always feel that time.

There are lots of other musical pieces that remind me of the past, sometimes with nostalgia, sometimes just a familiar story, such as a favorite drama series on television. I donít know who composed most of them, for they were usually written specifically for the programs, and after the series ended, the music disappeared. I did experience a flashback, however, one day while pushing a cart along the aisles of Krogers, when the theme music from "Hill Street Blues" drifted out of the storeís sound system. It was instantly recognizable and I smiled, even though I had no inclination to revisit that television series. I understand itís available on DVD and perhaps on some obscure cable channel.

When I was more active in building my record collection, I did seek out such memory music as Franz Lisztís Les Preludes, which was used as bridge music in the radio version of "The Lone Ranger" when I was a child. Itís not as often recognized as the Overture to William Tell by Rossini, but it was just as much a part of the dramatic emphasis for that series, and hearing it always reminds me of those days.

Music has always been an important part of my emotional life. Emotions from my past seem dry and remote usually, when I can recall them. Until the memories sneak in under the wall, drawn by particular pieces. Such as hearing recently the Fifth Dimension singing "Age of Aquarius" from the musical Hair, that Judith and I played at the end of our marriage ceremony fifteen years ago, full of hope and excitement that reminded us both that even though we were grandparents, romance was still possible.

Even fragments, such as the drum solo from Inna Gadda Da Veda by the Iron Butterfly (about as far from the dreamy strains of Holstís "Venus" as one could get). Instantly, Iím in my car forty years ago listening to a tape from someone Iíve left behind, and I know that even though Iím not going back, sheíll never really be gone from my mind.

Or dancing with my fiancť in an outdoor ballroom to Tony Bennett singing "I Wonít Cry Anymore" and I tell her I really like the song and she stiffensóshe thought I was about to break off our engagementóand I spend the rest of the evening kissing away her tears and her fears. I donít hear Tony Bennett very often anymore.

I suppose I could tell the story of my life in music. Each piece has a flavor extracted from the moments when it became engravedóhard wired in the neural connections in my brain. Like most old people, I cherish my collection of photographs that remind me of my life and those Iíve loved. Still, itís the theme songs from all the episodes of my history, all the music that unlocks the real nostalgia.


Donald Skiff, June 9, 2005

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